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Here's where you can meet singles in San Jose, California.Our Santa Clara County singles are in the 408 area code, and might live in these or other zip codes: 95141, 95120, 95160, 95139, 95119, 95123, 95193, or 95138 personals.Check your own issues with fatness before telling me to check mine.I don't know what the motivation is for guys who try to get me on their shoulders at concerts or attempt to lift me gently into bed.
There are some places, some days, when I just don't want to interact with certain people or try to make my body fit into the world.
If I try to talk to you about fatphobia, about discrimination, about the challenges I face as a fat woman in the world, please don't try to comfort me by telling me people don't mean it, that maybe I'm misreading the situation, the the world isn't out to get me.
Whether or not fat hatred is malicious, it's still harmful.
If there's an attraction between us, you'll know it, and whatever desires that sparks, let's talk about them.
Don't just assume I'm all in because I'm sex-positive, fat, and sometimes femme.